Is your relationship on dangerous ground?
It may be, if you have been:
There comes a time in most relationships when the "magic" has worn off, kids take priority, life keeps you busy, and you've fallen into some bad relational habits. One day you wake up, realizing you feel disconnected, unloved, unappreciated, dissatisfied... Talking about these feelings is painful; fixing what's wrong takes a lot of work, a lot of cooperation, a lot of compromise. Perhaps you feel like you've tried everything but you just don't know how to repair your relationship.
Maybe someone has caught your attention and the "magic" is back, just not with your partner. It can be frightening and exhilarating- you probably still love your partner but this new attention makes you feel connected, special, sexy, desired... things that have disappeared from or never existed in your current relationship.
If any of this sounds even a little bit familiar, it's time for you to contact me for a free phone consultation. I can help you sort through these confusing emotions, and figure out what you and your partner want and need from your relationship. Sometimes when you feel like you've tried everything, an objective professional is needed to help identify relational patterns you may not be aware of, and make suggestions as to how you can change them for the better. Believe it or not, you truly can regain the love and intimacy that is missing, even if there has been infidelity.
Come and see me. My particular brand of therapy is without judgment; without pressure; without pushing for a particular outcome.